Remembering Peeps and Mom

This week will mark the 10th anniversary of my mom’s death.  It really was a miracle that she lived as long as she did, considering bilateral breast cancer (one side was actually ‘pre-cancerous’ but required a simple mastectomy, but the other side required a radical mastectomy), metastasis to her right lung, and metastasis to theContinue reading “Remembering Peeps and Mom”

Dementia Wins By A Landslide !

I worked in various nursing homes during the years I worked as an RN, starting in 1985.  I worked as a ‘floor’ nurse, charge nurse, supervisor, and administrative (desk) nurse.  Nursing homes really are quite delightful places to work, and while nursing home nurses are often looked down upon by hospital nurses (I’ve done thatContinue reading “Dementia Wins By A Landslide !”

The Little Things That Made Her Her…

My mom died in March 2003.  She had survived cancer multiple times (breast x 2, lung, brain).  She got through surgeries, chemotherapy, and radiation.  And lived 17 years longer than her last cancer diagnosis.  What was worse than all of that was the dementia caused by the radiation to her brain.  It sucked the lifeContinue reading “The Little Things That Made Her Her…”

Mom’s Final Days…Please Excuse Me While I Bawl My Eyes Out

This is still rough.  And yes, it’s long. Mom had been through so much, and survived.  She had been through breast cancer, pre-cancerous tumors in the other breast (so bilateral mastectomies when all was said and done), reconstruction, metastasis to her right lung (so part of her lung removed), and then metastasis to her brainContinue reading “Mom’s Final Days…Please Excuse Me While I Bawl My Eyes Out”

ROFL at Dementia…or Die Crying

My mom ended up with dementia as a result of radiation for brain cancer. She had the tumor surgically removed, but they wanted to zap the surrounding area a bit to make sure they nuked everything that might cause trouble later.  Seems nuking a brain doesn’t always go without issues.  I was 1200+ miles away,Continue reading “ROFL at Dementia…or Die Crying”

Why Work At A Nursing Home…

If you work at a nice one, there’s no reason not to work at a nursing home. I’ve heard the slams by non-nursing home nurses over the years that somehow nursing home nurses are the bottom of the barrel, but I’ve found this to be quite untrue.  Different types of nursing require different skill sets,Continue reading “Why Work At A Nursing Home…”